i came back not only to Poland but also to reading book...
i found good words... from book....which are like words from my life...dreaming about England...
They told me I had no right to that dream for myself, that anyone could dream about America in the far reaches of the night and there was nothing I could do about it. I told them I could stop them. I'd keep them awake all night and they'd have no dreams at all.
maybe i should awake everynight and all night my boyfriend that he 'd have no dream at all..maybe then he will understnad that i have right to wishes and dreaming...
do we have rights to dreaming about things which hurts people who loved us? or maybe its sin to wish something which can hurts other people?
husband dreams about other girl when his wife is sleeping next to him, 60 years old man is dreaming about 18 years old girl and all naughty things which he can makes with her...mother dreams are about great future in law for her child who is really intersted in cars and football....
dreams can be safe in our heart..in our body when they are ineffable, unspeakable...
do i have right to dreaming about beloved Egland, about fantastic career as biologist, about fantastic travels, about great motorbike and going on concerts and do what i want..instead of dreaming about being mother with many children who screaming near your ear, big hause with handsome husband...about good family car and holidays with all family in caravan...
My dreams hurt many people especcialy my boyfriend.. Does YOUR dreams hurt anyone?
astronut

Of course, dreams in your sleep you cannot control, and you should not feel guilty or bad about them. However, if you have a fantasy during the day (day dream) that may be harmful to someone else, it is best not to feed it by dwelling on it. It may seem harmless to day dream things which may cause harm because it is not real. However, day dreaming may eventually give rise to action in the real world. For example, if you day dream about having an affair with a married man that you know, you will increase the chance of doing it for real.